I am a Feminist, You too shall be!!!
So there we go!!! It’s 8th of March and suddenly all my
facebook, linkedin and twitter pages have started screaming (wishing as they
say it) Happy Women’s Day. But then as I observe a bit deeper, the women in our
houses are still working in kitchen, female foeticide is still rampant, a women
at workplace is still being harassed, the lazy and unfit husband still beats
his wife, a daughter is still kept away from schools, a teenage girl is still
asked not to wear jeans, a female auto driver is still a rare phenomenon, the
roads are still unsafe for ladies after midnight, a bride is still killed in
the name of dowry, a girl is still raped in every 30 minutes (Mind you it’s only the
reported cases), child care is still the mother’s job only, wages and salaries
still show gender discrimination, a mother’s unpaid job is still not recognized
and above all, we men are still manly and unfortunately SILENT. Therefore I am
here to make a request.
On this women’s day, let’s not judge her, but to
love her; let’s care, but not restrict her; let’s facilitate, but not
stereotype her; let’s advise, but not decide for her; let’s appreciate and
acknowledge but not discriminate her; let’s cook for her, but not to think that
cooking is only her job; let’s see equity, but not patriarchy; let’s stand for
her, but not harass her; and finally, let’s be manly enough to be a feminist,
for feminism isn’t just about women, it’s about equity, justice and dignity.
Happy Women’s Day first to my mother and then ALL (specially MEN). #PK
#WomensDay #Feminist #IamFeminist #MenforWomen